So the final fitting has come and gone as quick as a thought that was incredibly important that you forget as soon as you remember. Wow, say that ten times fast. So to sum up my final dress experience: sub par. It seems as though as soon as a dress shop makes the sale and swipes the Visa, the customer service descends into a vat of UN-awesomeness, just as we watched the fashion era of the 80s plummeted into a great abyss. Obviously, these are two very similar situations :P. Anyways, lucky for me, I did not have to face this alone. Thanks, Renee.
So, as I slip into the dress I notice that the train situation that I thought was being taken care of...was not. Last time, I made it clear that I did NOT want a train, and I wanted the ENTIRE thing removed. The seamstress told me she would leave just a bit because it finishes the dress. Blah Blah Blah. Whatever, that was fine. WELL, apparently, "a bit" means a foot. Lame. So as I stood with Renee debating on whether or not to blow a gasket or calmly accept the excess of fabric, we waited and waited and waited for someone to come by and direct us to a decision. Nope, who would care about a bride and the most important aesthetic aspect of her big day? No big deal.
Finally, the seamstress comes by to see 'how I was doing in my lovely princess dress' (insert British-y accent). "Not good. I'm planning on dragging this through the dirt on a FARM for pictures and dancing the night away. I was hoping the train would be shorter." And so it goes on until we agree on adding a bustle... sigh.
So there you have it. I'm not 100% sure this is my fault or theirs. I let them leave "a bit"; however, I'm kind of undecided. The bustle, I think, will be OK, but I would have rather had it off after the first alteration. Please add your thoughts, maybe some suggestions on what I should do.
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Don't let them get away with it - fight for what YOU want or you won't be happy. Good luck :)
I had a bustle and we were outside in the rain in Seattle and it worked out well. But for pictures, it might not look so good. I was determined to go barefoot for my wedding and the woman altering my dress had a fit because "you just can't do that!" So in the end, I wore ballet houseslippers..the closest thing to nothing on my feet that I could get. I agree - as soon as they sell you the dress, what you want often goes out the window. And it sounds like it's not your fault...although sometimes you may need to be incredibly firm about what you want - they'll try to get their way because in their mind, it works. The shoe thing wasn't a big deal for me, but I wanted 100% white bouquets for my bridesmaids and I was sure that was what I was getting. My wedding planner (yes I had one of those!) said I would "love them" and it was a surprise. I trusted her. Mistake. They were not all white but mixed green, white and off-white. Yuck. I almost cried when I saw them. In other words, pick your battles - if this is really really important to you, put your foot down and tell them that they screwed up and you want NO train and NO need for a bustle.
I was there and they showed you the foot on the bottom in the back and you were in agreement, but it's also okay if you change your mind and go back to your original plan - to not have a train at all. Just let them know what you want now - you have plenty of time for them to fix it! :)
When she gestured with her fingers it was only a few inches not a foot. Definitely not a foot, so that was my issue. A few inches would be OK, but I think a foot is too long. Ahh I don't know what to do!
I had the dress I wanted on my wedding day. Make this dress YOUR dress. I will help you with that. I don't want you to have any regrets. Let me know what you want me to do. Love you:)
Well Whit, like everyone has said already, its your dress, so make it what you want, dont let the people at the fitting tell you what you want. you still have lots of time for them to fix it, its not fair to you to wear a dress that isnt perfect. Let me know how it goes. dont be scared to get aggressive:)
Thanks Miranda. So I've decided I'll leave it for now until Mom can see it when I move back. Then if we aren't happy with it I'll just get it hemmed in FSJ. I'm done dealing with this shop.
Sounds like a great plan Whitney:)
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